Friday, August 1, 2014

What makes me Happy: The Beach

So I've been reading this book called the Happiness Project, and it gave me the idea to write down what makes me happy, just for the sake of having a record. Well, and that writing down what makes me happy kind of makes me happy in and of itself.

What I want to focus on for this post, as you can probably infer from the title, is the beach. I love the beach. My grandparents had a timeshare in Cannon Beach, Oregon, all while I was growing up. We went pretty often, and spent a lot of time with my cousins there. Cannon Beach holds a very special place in my heart because it is the first beach I remember every going to. I spent so many days looking through the tide pools by Haystack Rock, searching for starfish and anemones. I spent just as many nights there sitting around a fire in the cold sand, bundled up in an oversized sweatshirt but still wearing shorts, like a true oregonian. I remember the time my cousin was showing us all how she could do the splits, but I couldn't, so I tried jumping of a log so I could land in the splits and then spending the next 30 minutes crying because I really wasn't flexible enough for the splits. I also remember sitting in the hot tub with my cousins, playing lots of water games, because the ocean was always too cold to swim in. I remember exactly what the walk to the beach looked like, and the two beach houses we walked between to get to the actual beach. I so dearly miss walking through the cold sand, watching the sun set over the sea. What I miss the most though is all the time we spent there with our family playing phase 10. Okay, maybe that's not what I miss most, but it was a staple of every trip!

Another beach that I hold close is Corona Del Mar, just south of Newport Beach in SoCal. The first time I went there was with my ward for FHE, where we played beach volleyball and roasted marshmallows over a fire after it got dark. After that first time, I went back almost weekly. It was about 30 minutes from my apartment and I was kind of going through some things at the time, so I spent a lot of time there, usually with friends, just sitting on the sand after dark, listening to the waves. It was my escape. I remember the last time I was there, 2 days after I had lost my job, I went with a handful of friends that I wanted to spend one last night with. It was in late April, so it wasn't particularly warm after dark. The sand was cold, just how I like it, and the waves were strong. I spent nearly an hour, by myself, sitting on the lifeguard stand, just listening to the waves crash onto the jetty. I go back there in my mind whenever I just need to get away from the world.

One thing that I have said before, I don't remember who it was to, but I remember telling them that I always feel at home whenever I am at a beach. Well, I want to revise that a little bit. I always feel at home on a cold beach. Warm beaches feel more like a vacation destination to me. I much prefer the cold sand, water that is far too chilly to swim in, and a brisk breeze, just enough that I need an oversized hoodie :) I would take an Oregon coast beach over a Florida beach any day.

Well, now I live in North Texas, where the only sand is found on the banks of muddy lakes, far away from anything even remotely resembling the beaches that I love. But I still have plenty of memories to look back on.

Cold beaches make me happy :)

The first picture is Corona Del Mar, the second is a heavily edited Cannon Beach. Both pictures were taken by me.

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